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Jessica Benjamin (1988)Clinical & Theoretical MonographLevel: AdvancedISBN 9780394757308

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The Bonds of Love: Psychoanalysis, Feminism, and the Problem of Domination

In The Bonds of Love (1988), Jessica Benjamin examines psychoanalysis, feminism and domination, including questions of recognition and independence in relationships.

Book details

Author of listed edition: Jessica Benjamin

Edition: 1988 Pantheon paperback

Publisher: Pantheon Books

Edition year: 1988

Language and origin: English (United States)

ISBN: 9780394757308

Form and genre: Clinical & Theoretical Monograph

Level: Advanced

Historical era: 1980–2009 · Evidence-Based, Trauma & Integrative Era

Covers: Recognition and independence in relationships; Psychoanalysis and feminist social theory; Gender and domination

APA 7th reference: Benjamin, J. (1988). The bonds of love: Psychoanalysis, feminism, and the problem of domination. Pantheon Books.

What it is

The Bonds of Love is a 1988 work by psychoanalyst and feminist theorist Jessica Benjamin. The publisher describes a study of power, recognition and domination in relationships and social life.

What it covers

Benjamin discusses tensions between independence and recognition of another person as a subject. The publisher’s excerpt and contents include discussions of early relationships, gender and domination.

Theoretical and clinical context

A later 2004 paper presents Benjamin’s account of “doer and done to” and shared thirdness in psychoanalytic work. These are interpretive concepts; the abstract does not establish a necessary mechanism of change or treatment effectiveness.

Reading this record

The publisher’s description, excerpt and the later paper’s abstract were consulted; the complete book was not reviewed. An account of mutual recognition should not be used to imply equal power or responsibility in an abusive relationship.

Paired academic and clinical scholarship

Paired work: Beyond Doer and Done To: An Intersubjective View of Thirdness (Jessica Benjamin, 2004)

Reference: Benjamin, J. (2004). Beyond doer and done to: An intersubjective view of thirdness. The Psychoanalytic Quarterly, 73(1), 5–46.

In a 2004 theoretical paper, Benjamin discusses complementarity and shared thirdness in psychoanalytic work; the abstract is not an outcome study.

Sources and inspection notes

  1. Benjamin, J. (1988). The bonds of love: Psychoanalysis, feminism, and the problem of domination. Pantheon Books.

    Primary source · Checked 4 November 2026

    Supports: Publisher identifies the 1988 paperback and ISBN, and provides a description, contents and excerpt. The complete book was not reviewed.

  2. Benjamin, J. The bonds of love. Bibliothèque nationale de France catalogue.

    Reference work · Checked 4 November 2026

    Supports: Catalogue records the 1988 Pantheon work and identifies 9780394757308 as a paperback ISBN.

  3. Benjamin, J. (2004). Beyond doer and done to: An intersubjective view of thirdness. The Psychoanalytic Quarterly, 73(1), 5–46.

    Peer-reviewed · Checked 4 November 2026

    Supports: Abstract describes Benjamin’s theoretical account of thirdness and complementarity; it is not a clinical outcome study.

An educational reference. It does not diagnose, recommend treatment, match people with therapists or offer crisis support.